The case of Milan and Iris Ross, chef and murdered wife
- Miss Mej
- 2 days ago
- 3 min read
Weirdly enough the CAP forensic grant I described previously was named after deceased Dallas medical examiner Beth Frost whose death mimics Iris Ross married to vegan change agent Milan was found guilty of her murder today.
And they were very similar to the cases I saw that made me launch my marriage promotion and divorce promotion book years ago--the murders of newly minted successful wives who are about to leave their less educated but nonetheless loyal spouse to his never-ending dismay and escalating rage.
Remember, everybody this simple preventive mantra: Protect a woman's inner nourishment and desire to love through spiritual and social relationships. Protect a man's source of income, i.e. his work.
In men who cannot keep up with wives who got an inherently bigger career than them (for Dr. Frost it was $ 260T a year and for Miss Ross, $150T a year as a surgery center administrator) and in the divorce, Milan will get $700--and the home and the kids will be his wife's. His new credibility he has built around his vegan-diet-and-an-hour-a-day-walk habit exercise will not matter since his salary as a Whole Foods employee if he is still there (the one-week immersive plant-based retreat with Dr. Steven Stoll transformed him) is too small to be a father or to uphold the chef status he had prided himself to achieve.
In The Change: Transforming Yourself and Your Body Into the Person You Want to Be: Ross, Milan, Stoll MD, Scott: 9780757004322: Amazon.com: Books
he is filled with tenderest appreciation for his wife, who after the program, is the best thing that ever happened to him. He writes of the typical American experience in health--comfort in sugary, meat-based and fatty foods AND no exercise--causing the list of chronic diseases to enter and plague him.
The commentary for the book which was notable for the patient and doctor combined perspectives was there are none of the plant-based recipes to replicate, and a cookbook is supposedly on the works. Meanwhile ten years later, it remains a teaser, but apparently his life as well.
In 2003 he abandoned a woman and their four daughters (which were named in the dedication of the cookbook). Five years later the woman filed for divorce and the following year 2009 married Iris whom he had two children (also killed in the stand-off with police).
In December 2011, he realized from looking at a picture at his 30th birthday that he has become massive--450 pounds below though not the slap-in-the-face picture.
In 2012 he started Whole Foods employment rather than be a musician to get health insurance and the following year 2013 joined Dr. Stoll's employee wellness retreat and proceeded to lose 225 pounds and made him feted in the media.
In 2016 the inspirational book was published. He was earnest, a man struggling to be better, even rejoicing at his successes in the family he created, giving Iris a loved up acknowledgement. Yet shortly after, Iris was living with a roommate and in June 2017 filed for divorce.
Could it be because he included the four children's names that as one newspaper wrote she had never previously known about. And what about the wife that he just ghosted, what if that was me? What if after his media juggernaut she found him insufferable.
What is known is she became paranoid at her escape (and with her highest salary she is sure to get through) that in picking up their children that Christmas she carried a gun with her. And not knowing if he had a gun himself, he used one to shoot her and then later after a long-stand-off with the police, the two children that were to be transferred homeholds were transported out of the world for real.
Her sister and the daughters from the first family would mention about demons or darkness but they didn't know this dark.
Listen. A man deprived of sleep, sex, food and home will be a nasty creature. Deprived of work he will be even worst and this should not be. But in cases of men who have the security and esteem via their wives and their kids--and which family man doesn't-- and lose it from a divorce which will knock him out into the sludgy dating pool and in near-poverty line with a woman who doesn't want to see him as an equal, let alone as the head of house, anymore simply because she is making more. That will be risky to the lives of all involved.
That being said. He shouldn't have courted sin by abandoning his first wife and daughters. Second marriages are not for the still living.